Aphasia!! Yeah… no, a part of aphasia. I don’t know. I am seriously at loss of words. My ability to think, think good has been missing and I’m so eager to find it. The things now-a-days have started going so practical, there is no room for feelings. Even the feelings shown, have to pass through a ‘series of filters’. Filters!!! Yeah, I know most of us have faced this time and again or we ourselves have been doing it.
For instance, you want to express some feelings or opinions to someone, you want to confide in or confess badly. The moment you decide what you have to say, you make it pass through the ‘series of filters’. If you use ‘this’ particular word, the influence is different, if you use ‘that’ one, you fear to be misunderstood.
Every word you say, you need to weigh the pros and cons of consequences of the usage. Then comes the tone, it does play a significant role in the expected communication. You need to be wary of your partner in this task. Okay, though some things seem legitimate here, most of the others are just fillers. You use them, just to fill the gap of understanding. So, it has to be a real good blend of fillers and filters. Oh Lord, it’s really tough to decide.
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How do you decide how to decide!? What do you say? How do you say? Whom do you say?
Everything matters a hell lot. But realizing how it impacts the true feelings, we seldom get any chances to be pure at heart. There is no place for purity of thoughts in the practical world.
Everything you say will be weighed on these several factors and then interpreted… as if it remains intact! The way it should have been conveyed goes farsighted! That’s why I’m being a part of this confusion. You need to think a lot before you speak, which really ruin the true feelings in most of the cases.
It is said, “Think before you speak”. I fear it has become, “Keep thinking, else speak something else”.